Nyaboke Harry

Everyone has dark days and the difference is what causes the darkness. Some people find light in their own, others get pulled out of the dark, and most get drown by the dark. Getting drown of fear that causes, pain that forces it's way to the veins. The mouth gets silenced not to let the screams out. The guts pressed with the sound of horror left with tears as each day passes by. Eventually their pain consumes their strength. Strong ones that finds light on their own also struggle to always find light at the end of the tunnel. They make the world see what they want to see. And the world will think they don't have what it takes to feel broken. Because they'll never say what they really think but late in the dark they are pulling themselves out of it. Tell me, what amount of courage do one need to have to learn to cry and on public to be specific?? They always make their tears form and make the sparkle of light that they need.  Humanity partly exist, some will s...

Apart from love, there's a apart of us that needs a friend. A confidant, to cheer you up at your lowest, that sees the best in you and fight to bring it out,that will never allow your esteem to be lowered, that appreciates you, that has the courage to tell you you're wrong if needed,above all that gives you a family sensation. All this describes a best   friend. Imagine having someone as crazy as you. Someone who matches you in everything. I guess it's fun if you're both gossipers, foodie and laughter being part of you. You know, the one to support you do a stupid harmless thing and found it funny. The one to explain your problem and found it funny but feels it. This becomes your problem both. Helps sort out your mess. Secrets ain't allowed no matter what it is. Minds your happiness and comfortability. You make memories and never forget any of them. Values any slightest piece of you and your memories and above all happy for your successes. I guess no on...

There's no right time for love. Wheather old, young, wheather in school or not love exists. When in love people feel perfect, safe and good.  Campus students are not limited either to love and be in a relationship. In this case it might be healthy or unhealthy depending on how the two relate. In most cases campus student are involved in unhealthy and toxic relationships for various reasons. Mostly students would love to explore and feel to be involved in more than one relationship leading to lack of trust and feel belittled by the other partner. Jealousy and feeling envious reigns after this and to that point patners don't feel safe with each other Negative financial behaviors lead to unhealthy relationships too. Most students are financially managed by their parents, guardians or sponsors. Making it a challenge to manage their patners needs or be financial responsible. Apart from what love and relationships can give, there's also responsibility and commitments....

To  be termed a confident or a highly esteemed woman, all fears, pain and struggles women go through have to be overcame. Fears of being called ugly or having ugly features, termed weak or stupid, being too tall or too short, or having small boobs and butts, having delayed hormones makes women feel incomplete and this kills their confidence. Alot of them going through stress lately. From cleaning to cooking to taking care of their children and husbands, work business and ministries and more others like fears of misleading their kids because if that happens or kids misleads themselves they'll be obviously blamed. Protect their marriages and dignity that generates from stress to cancers. Apart from fears there's also pain. Pain of being walked over by the society and the government generally, period pains, breaking of virginity, pain of pregnancy, labour pains, miscarriages, abuse in any way, being cheated on, pain of female genital mutilation, house chore...